Sunday, 25 November 2007

Being a GIRL....

Being a girl is the worst thing that can happen to an individual. If I ever get to know I am pregnant with a girl child, I will kill myself that very day only. I have never hated being a female in my life till now. My parents have borne 3 daughters, hats off to them. I wonder what the parents of a male child think when a son is born in their family. Does it make them superior in an instant? Does it give them a right to hurt someone's feelings without even thinking twice? I think that it is every Indian parent's right who has a male child to show their superiority in one form or the other. Why do we make our lives so complicated? Is it human nature to give importance to your feelings and only yours before anyone else's??? If yes, then why in the world did my parents never think of teaching me to put SELF before everything else? I feel sorry for the parents of females in India for despite having dignified lives of their own, they are ultimately at the mercy of others. A discussion with a close confidante revealed that if you have sisters, your sister does not have a right to her own decisions and all decisions regarding even her life must be taken by the man who is her brother in law! How ironical can life get? Is it a threat to a male's ego if the females in his family make their own decision? If a girl child's father can give her the sense of an indivuality, why can't some men just ACCEPT it??? I AM IN A RAGE OF EMOTIONS....The result of some recent happenings is that I feel that the girl child should never be born.............

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